Rejection is a redirection (5 things you should know)

Chances are you’ve been there.

You’re tapping into timelines that feel bright and exciting...

Fantasizing about would be’s and could be’s...

You feel the swell of excitement building within you;

You’ve gained balance within your current paradigm and you’ve mastered the waves that currently sustain the level you’re operating at. You’re feeling ready for the next big one.

You feel exhilarated to ride new waves into their respective shores and timelines.

Maybe those new horizons encompass a certain person or you have a feeling of the qualities that person would embody.

Maybe it’s an organization you’re hoping to get in on the fun with,

Or that group of people that represent and reflect certain values and ways of being that feel really in tune with your soul’s expression and essence.

You’re ready and you’re geared up.

You’ve built enough confidence in enough areas to assume that this next leap of faith will render to be surprisingly successful as most of them have been in the past, despite whatever doubts may have existed when taking those other plunges.

You’ve fought off and roped down bigger fish than this before;

You’ve navigated your way through more tumultuous depths, unraveled the tight tentacles of fear from around your throat as you dared to dive into more expanded roles that would test the integrity of any floatation device…

What’s the worst that can happen?

Sometimes the “worst” that could happen is not this big, titanic-level catastrophe that we can create it to be in our minds.

Oftentimes when we experience rejection in any of the many forms it can present itself in, the actual moment of rejection is short, sweet, and punctual.

The actual experience comes and goes pretty quickly and is not the most damaging part of the experience, depending on the graciousness and compassion of whoever is doing the news-breaking to our fragile egos.

What sends us into the throes of the Evil Leviathan, what leaves us gasping for air as the echoes of not-good-enough-ness threaten to fully take us under, is how often we choose to relive that scenario from a place of self-pity.

From a place of adding more weight onto a ship that’s been doing its best to sail freely for as long as we can remember.

In our current systems, we’re not given the proper equipment to navigate the rough waters that sometimes come along with this kind of adventure;

This adventure that many of us don’t remember signing up for but surely did with arms waving, spirits high, and voices cheering.

We’re not taught the most effective ways to lighten our load and untether ourselves from heavy anchors.

In this week’s topic I assist you through just that – lightening the load so your spirit can sail the seas of your reality with greater mobility and ease.

Here I give you 5 shifts in perspective grounded in love, wisdom, and compassion to help you understand the mechanism of rejection and how to experience it from a higher state.

We know that we’re beginning to see life more clearly when things that once kept us shackled and spiraling into pits of despair no longer affect us as deeply.

They’re shorter in duration and eventually we get to a place where they barely touch us, if even at all.

I don’t know about you but that’s the kinda ride I wanna be on.

Let’s take this next wave together, shall we?

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