21 & pregnant. Wisdom from an unmarried, “single” mom.

Maya’s dad and I fall under the “highly unconventional” category for several reasons.

Spirit has revealed to me many layers about the relevance of our dynamic over the years...

And I'm gonna fill you in on just a couple of those insights in order to maintain the relevancy of this week's transmission.

First I gotta say, my guides you guys, they got mad jokes😅

A quick backstory to catch you up a bit: I had undergone several spiritual awakenings prior to meeting Greg in my early twenties.

Greg's birthday is two days before mine and he’s six years older.

Naturally we're both pretty philosophical by heart,

Deep thinkers by nature…

After our initiation into parenthood and other life redirections, we would often find ourselves listening to Abraham Hicks together.

Bashar channelings were another shared favorite along with quite a few series on the Gaia network.

Greg was really into Kryon at one point but I wasn't as sparked up by those messages at that particular time.

I too had other teachers and explorations that didn't quite light him up in the same way, to be expected of course.

Also fun to note, Greg and I went through a Bachelor’s program together, studying Metaphysical Sciences imparted by a well-known teacher in the infamous Sedona, AZ.

He paid for it and got the piece of paper but I was just happy to receive the transmissions alongside him.

I still crack up that he's legally an ordained minister. Lol.

So all of this to say: we went through profound expansions and were consciously exploring; we took the plunge together into powerful teachings.

I'm forever grateful for all that we unearthed and re-membered during Maya's first years.

So, back to the humor of my Spirit Guides.

At one point in our spiritual explorations we came across an incredible system for decoding soul lessons for a lifetime.

We found this guy, Nicolas David Ngan, on a Gaia interview who studied this system for decoding your soul’s contract channeled by a man who would end up being one of his main spiritual teachers.

What was intriguing about this system is that it’s decoded through the vibration of your name as it’s spoken,

Which makes sense, right?

Words carry a certain frequency signature and it makes sense why only one, two, maybe three names feel right for parents as their trying to name their kid;

The soul of the soon-to-be is in communication with the souls’ of the humans responsible for those initial lifetime imprints.

After the interview, we had that familiar nudge that I'm sure many of you reading this are familiar with...

We felt inspired to explore even further what was lightly introduced to us over the course of that interview.

We dove into our charts and had many things confirmed to us.

I would always say to people before decoding their charts that the type of people who show up to "these kind of things,"(different forms of energy readings) already have a good idea of what their soul is trying to communicate,

It's not so much about us being revealed "new information" as it is just another mechanism to help us strengthen the trust in our own intuition.

And what’s incredibly funny,

Is that I’ve done over a dozen of these readings for others, including myself and Greg.

And within Greg’s soul contract and my own contract, it was revealed that we both had a high probability of having unplanned children for the purpose of learning unconditional love and selflessness in this incarnation, among a couple of overarching themes.

I’ll never forget, we couldn’t help but laugh;

"If only we knew," we'd say,

Maybe we would have gone about things a weeeee bit differently😝

And out of all the other readings I did, the only other time that same soul lesson popped up was with a friend who also had an unplanned pregnancy when she was even younger than I was when I found out I was pregnant with Maya.

I find myself reminding many people, that as much as we like to think we should or even could have total control over our lives, we mustn’t forget that we come encoded with certain things to learn and explore…

And we'll no doubt receive many confirmations throughout our lives that reveal these truths to us.

I felt things shifting between Greg and I from supporting a romance to supporting more of a friendship when Maya was around 2 years old.

I moved out shortly after that.

Part of mine and Greg’s dynamic is to be an example of conscious uncoupling and healthy co-parenting.

This is not to say we've had the smoothest journey,

We've definitely navigated some pretty rough seas as a pair.

Overall however, I'm proud of us. I'm proud of the respect and love we have for one another.

We do holidays together, sometimes we hang out together as a family unit when it feels aligned, usually pretty spontaneously.

Last month he and I we went on an epic all-day hike under the guidance of a Wise Plant Spirit while Maya stayed with some family.

It’s been fun to witness how our dynamic has become even closer, how much love still exists between each other even though that love has transformed over the years.

It's not until people ask if things are awkward or point out the un-conventions of how we operate that I'm reminded of two main things:

1) how unique our dynamic appears through the eyes of others

and

2) that we are simply choosing to write a different script;

One that is based on Unconditional Love and Compassion versus the one that's fed to us by the mainstream agenda.

You know, the one that says we should hate each other now,

The one that puts a negative filter over the entire relationship, forgetting the beauty that did once exist and initially drew the two (or more) beings together in the first place.

It's the reality bubble where we're expected and supported in bashing our "ex's,"

I actually have a dear soul brother who often says to just look at the language we use around past partners, like we're 🙅 X-ing them out of our lives when at one point we claimed to love them so...

All this to say, Greg is one of my greatest friends and I see why our souls chose each other for this particular lesson.

And I may not be in a romantic relationship with any one particular being but I am far from being or feeling like a "single" mom.

I have an incredibly powerful Team Behind the Scenes,

I am surrounded by some of the most genuine, authentic, and empowered humans I've ever known,

I love what I get to do for "work," if you can even call it that.

And my sweet Maya...

None of us have enough time for me to dive into all the relevancies of our connection.

I’ll never forget when I realized that we’re exactly six months apart.

She’s 3/6, I’m 9/6, we’ve got the secrets of the Universe according to Tesla coiled into our karmic entanglement.

She’s my Divine Counterpart for so many reasons.

And if I had had it my way, if I had done things according to logic and societal pressures,

I don’t know where I’d be. And she would not be here.

If I had followed "the plan" I don’t know if I could say that by almost 28 years old, I’ve had the honor of impacting tens of thousands of lives with what I do for a living,

And another tens of thousands with what I’ve done through passion projects,

Who knows if I would be even a shadow of the woman I am today.

There are sooooo many layers to these things…

All the things. Everything.

And the more that you awaken and expand your consciousness, the layers reveal themselves even more.

You begin to really notice how there’s no “one reason” for any happening.

There are undertones and layers and undertones and layers to the undertones and layers...

And it’s not like these layers are something that we necessarily go searching for,

But as we open ourselves, as we clear our inner channels, our Higher Self will communicate those points and angles that are seen fit,

That will allow us to find a certain level of peace,

A deeper degree of clarity.

More and more we become an emanation of Grace and Beauty.

Nothing can stick to us, nothing can really touch us, not for long anyways.

We become more in tune with the Heavenly realms and serving our Mission as being the bridge between those higher realms and Earth.

And if you’re here in service of the planet, keep in heart that Higher Self divulges this information to us knowing that we will encounter people, or they'll come across our contributions, that will enable them to integrate the Light Codes that they seek and we bear.

To help them massage out their own hang-ups,

Their pockets of mental-emotional-spiritual tensions.

How we’re brought up and the experiences we go through when we’re younger,

When our Destinies are a little less malleable because a certain stage needs to be set,

These experiences create frameworks and parameters that end up propelling us in certain directions; they're Divinely Orchestrated in order to shape and mold us in the appropriate ways to align us with our Earth Mission.

It’s not that our traumatic and heavily confused pasts need to be glorified either,

As another badge that we wear with pride, “look what I’ve survived through😌"

But it has been important for me to investigate how these (initially) less desirable circumstances fit into the whole.

In this video I’m talking specifically about an unplanned pregnancy,

But for you maybe the script is a little bit different,

Maybe you’ve taken routes and pathways that others may look at in pity,

They may cringe in slight horror at imagining themselves being in your shoes,

But point-in-case, they’re not in your shoes.

It wasn’t relevant for them to explore.

These early “moldings” that others have projected onto me as being inhibitors to a prosperous life,

These things are actually the very reason that at this point in my life I experience the levels of prosperity and fulfillment and gratitude that I do.

For instance, I don’t have a 9-5. And the amount of hours I work in a month are on the very low end of the double digits.

The last time I had a traditional job was right after I graduated with my BA in Business at 21 and I kept that job for approximately five minutes😂

Because again, despite the direction my family with the best intentions tried to urge me towards, my blueprint had a different storyline in mind.

There was a freer narrative that I came to exude and step into and believe it or not Maya has been a big factor in making that possible.

This is one big friendly reminder that there's no cookie cutter of what the epitome of success looks like.

And because I have stepped into and owned my own version of success based on what feels truthful to my Spirit,

I feel deeply fulfilled and genuinely happy with where I'm at and where I'm continually being guided.

My reality is based on my own Code of Honor,

And I hope this transmission gives you permission to more fully embrace yours.

In this ten minute video I talk more about these layers.

I dive into the main messages that my guides felt needed to be shared to the collective that would eventually end up coming across these messages.

Fill in my scenario with your own and it’ll still apply.

May you be prosperous along your journey to full remembrance!

Travel Light my friends,

Marissa

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